Saturday, February 16, 2008

Let's Play 20 Questions - You Go First

Someone recently asked me what I was looking for in a relationship and it was a difficult question to answer. I can tell you what I don’t want, that might be easier than what I do want since the list is a lot shorter. In all seriousness you can have a sidebar checklist of what you are looking for and don’t want, your ‘must haves’ or ‘would be nice to have’, ‘will not settle for’ or a flat out ‘will not budge’, but you won’t find an exact match. Most of the time it finds you by accident anyway, when you least expect it to. With all sarcasm aside, if you find someone you connect with, you click with, you have fun with, someone that makes you happy, smile for no apparent reason, remembers the smallest detail, someone to pick you up off the floor after you’ve had too many drinks and tuck you into bed, someone who makes fireworks go off, and all the other positive aspects of what comes next that which I haven’t listed here, and if this someone feels the same of course, hold on tight, but not too tight. You might not be 10 minutes away, you might not want to have a significant other right now (whatever that means in this century), but you should not lose sight of what makes you happy and all bubbly inside. You can spend a lifetime looking for ‘the one’ but it is these ‘someones’ that leave the most impression. You out listening....

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